When I was 15, we moved from rural Manitoba to coastal British Columbia. That was an exciting time! We heard that it didn't even get cold enough for skating in winter in BC. I couldn't even imagine what that would be like. I was thrilled to have a chance to experience something most of my friends couldn't imagine. In our first winter in BC, I kept sending my Manitoba friends pictures of our roses which kept blooming and blooming and blooming. I think we had roses until December.
There were so many things I loved about BC. The stuff we could grow! How green it was! The short winters. The towering mountains and the nearby ocean. How green it was! Oh yea, that green... Well, that brings me to the hardest thing about our move. The rain. It rained in the summer. It rained in the fall. And it rained in winter. We used to joke that it rained until February and then we got the rainy season.
It didn't rain all the time. We enjoyed sunshine as well. But it did rain a lot, and I remember occasionally not seeing sun for a month at a time. It was depressing sometimes. I was ALWAYS cold. In Manitoba you added another layer and warmed up. That didn't work as well in BC. The cold seemed to go right through you.
I suspect my Manitoba friends were somewhat jealous of our move (and I certainly encouraged that). And our new friends in BC reminded us regularly that we were now in "God's Country". We put up with their jokes about being able to see right across Manitoba if it weren't for the one tree in the way. We were used to calling the bush around us 'bush' and endured much ridicule for that. In BC, there is no bush. There is forest. Everyone considered us fortunate for having escaped Manitoba to live in BC.
Fast forward to 1991. We had a chance to move to Alberta, and given the economy and the fact that my husband didn't expect the company he worked for to be around long, and we took the opportunity. This time we were teased about moving to "Cowtown" and warned about the horrible winters we would have to endure. Many Albertans seemed totally shocked that we would move to Alberta from coastal BC. What were we thinking!!
We discovered, though, that moving from "God's Country" wasn't all bad. The sun shone in Alberta. We had sun every season. We had long evenings in the summer that could be spent outside - the light disappeared fast in our town in BC because of the mountains surrounding us. Now, in Alberta, we were still only an hour from the mountains and awesome hiking. Winters were often mild, and if we got too much snow, we seemed to only have to wait a bit for a warm chinook wind to come and melt all our snow. Seasons were a bit more distinct and I liked that. The weather was much drier, and what I liked most about that, was that I finally wasn't cold all the time.
The dryness meant, though, that I needed to have hand lotion in several spots in the house, and carry chapstick as well. Chinooks were wonderful in many ways, but sometimes it was brown in Calgary much of the winter because there was no snow, but not enough warmth for anything to grow. Spring would be very green but then summer could also be dry and brown. The mountains to the west of Calgary that allowed for chinook winds to warm the air in winter, also sometimes caused weird summer weather. We often had a blizzard on the long weekend in May, or even sometimes the first weekend in June. I remember being told that Alberta weather is very changeable, and it was possible to have all four seasons in one day. That was proven true our first year there. But we found much to love about living in Alberta.
Two years ago, we were given an opportunity to move back to my home province: Manitoba. Everyone knew we'd hate it. Manitoba was too cold in winter, too hot in summer, and had too many mosquitos. Even Manitobans seemed to have that mentality. It really baffled me. We have found Manitoba to have many things going for it. Distinct seasons. Yes! I love this about Manitoba. When it's winter, expect it to be cold, and bundle up. There are not that many days that are unbearable outdoors, if you dress for the weather. After winter comes spring. And once spring arrives, you know that summer isn't far behind. Many Manitobans don't believe my stories about snow in May & June in Calgary. Because they've been told that nothing is as cold as Manitoba winters. Summers here have been beautiful for the past two years. We use our deck a lot, and live more outdoors here, than anywhere else we have lived.
A lunch spot we found today for our lunch picnic. One of two rivers that runs through Winnipeg. There are many river walks in Winnipeg, and parks along the rivers.
Each place has it's own charm and beauty, as well as some downsides. Just recently I read in a Manitoba publication that a certain camp was on a spot so beautiful that it didn't seem like Manitoba. What kind of a statement is that? No, we don't have BC's mountains or majestic forests. But Winnipeg has the most beautiful tree-lined streets, and we have beautiful rivers and lakes. We have sunshine, and can grow things that cannot be grown in Calgary because of their erratic weather. We need to stop apologizing and start seeing the beauty around us!!
At our kids cottage near Arnes in the Interlake Region of Manitoba. Loving the outdoor life...
At the beach... the water is shallow enough for my 2-year-old granddaughter to be able to stand up herself way out there...
The marina near the cottage. Just a few glimpses of this beautiful province.
Sunday, August 5, 2012
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Family Gathering
Wilderness Edge is the place where my family has chosen to meet every two years. Our first one at this location was in 2003. Then 2006, 2008, 2010, and this one in 2012. Much has changed since 2003... the place as well as our family.
In 2003 our family numbered 4 - our 2 daughters and us. We've slowly added family members, and now we are 9. That has made a significant difference for us in the family gatherings! We are quite happy to be kept busy with the little ones.
In 2003, Mom was still with us. She also made it to the 2006 gathering, but went home that fall. We miss her, and I often think how much she would love my grandchildren. I'm glad my Dad can still enjoy them with us. He is slowing down at 96, and for the first time, this year he uses a cane. We are so thankful for him and his ongoing prayers for our family.
Our gatherings have differed in size, and this year was definitely smaller than last year. But it was still good to connect with those who could come, and spend a bit of time getting to know our scattered family once more. All of the families have changed in the last 10 years!!
In 2003 our family numbered 4 - our 2 daughters and us. We've slowly added family members, and now we are 9. That has made a significant difference for us in the family gatherings! We are quite happy to be kept busy with the little ones.
In 2003, Mom was still with us. She also made it to the 2006 gathering, but went home that fall. We miss her, and I often think how much she would love my grandchildren. I'm glad my Dad can still enjoy them with us. He is slowing down at 96, and for the first time, this year he uses a cane. We are so thankful for him and his ongoing prayers for our family.
Our gatherings have differed in size, and this year was definitely smaller than last year. But it was still good to connect with those who could come, and spend a bit of time getting to know our scattered family once more. All of the families have changed in the last 10 years!!
Wilderness Edge http://www.wildernessedge.com/ does an amazing job of hosting groups. Our food was superb, including a safe weekend for those with dietary restrictions. The place feels like a home away from home by now. The staff is friendly and helpful. Every year we talk about finding a cheaper option in the future, and every time we get there, we remember why we love it there. We had our own large room set up with games, photo albums, etc, so we could have a crokinole tournament and a scrabble tournament going all the time. Dad was pleased to play either game with whoever was available. One corner belonged to the kids, and their crafts could be spread out and left for the next time they ventured inside. 

This year we had our second Ladies Tea - put on by 2 of my nieces. They bring the teapots, teacups, tea and desserts, and we ladies dress up (hats and all) for the tea party. One of my great-nephews served us this year, and was so pleased to do so. This has already become a tradition that we wouldn't want to lose.
Oops, I forgot my hat at home. Dress, too... but someone was kind enough to lend me one.
One of our organizers with her daughter.
The other organizer with her son, our server.
The little girls love the tea party. The littlest one (right in the middle) is my granddaughter.
This year our organizing committee planned a LOT of activities. Too much for one person to take in. But perfect for a group who wanted variety. There were water sports - rafting, body surfing, and a beach day morning. There was a tractor-pulled wagon tour of Pinawa. That was my grandson's personal favorite. What could be better than being behind a tractor for an hour and a half!
We had our usual Sunday morning Hymn Sing and sharing time on Sunday morning.
One of my nieces brought her nail polish kit and played with our nails with great results.
The youngest and the oldest sibling.
The goodbyes are hard. But we are looking forward to the next one in 2014!
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Weddings & Community Events
This weekend our grandson was in a wedding, and though there will have been many good professional pictures taken, I had to get him in his little suit. I tried... but he's a bit of a blur unless someone is hanging onto him, so I'll use the one with Bestefar...
Along with a community-wide garage sale this weekend, our local garden centre also had a petting zoo & hot dog day. Since none of us have animals, this was novel for the grandkids, and they loved the close encounters with the animals they generally only read about.
Annika is so quick to grab at glasses or earrings, and has an iron grip, so I was rather wary with allowing her to touch the chicks and kittens. But she touched them very gently, and was all smiles at the sight and feel of them.
Haley waited patiently in line for her face to be painted. She knew exactly what she wanted - a flower on both sides - and sat very still until it was all done.
Annika's gentleness with the little animals wasn't as evident here, but this older dog wasn't at all perturbed about having his fur pulled by an enthusiastic little girl.
The craft Haley made...
A horseback ride!
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Snake Pits
The Narcisse Snake Pits in Manitoba are famous... apparently.
This is from Wikipedia: "The Narcisse Snake Pits are located six kilometers north of Narcisse, Manitoba. The dens are the winter home of tens of thousands of Red-sided Garter Snakes ..."
I had heard of them, but I'll admit they weren't on my bucket list. Still, when my son-in-law suggested we go to their cottage for a wiener roast and then head up to the snake pits to celebrate my birthday, I didn't hesitate. "Sure, let's go!" My hubby was a bit less enthusiastic. Granted, where he grew up, the most common snake was poisonous, and he grew up 'respecting' them, as he likes to say. But I reminded him that this was my birthday, not his, and I was choosing to go. The idea of spending the day with our kids and grandkids is enough incentive for both of us, and he came along without any complaints.
There aren't many weekends of the year when the snakes are this visible and active. In fact, after mating season they will slither off to other locations. Then in the fall, all but the youngest will be back to winter here. But what we were observing here, were mating rituals. Apparently each pile we saw would have 1 female and up to 100 male snakes. It really was quite fascinating. We couldn't go down into the pits... they are fenced off to protect the snakes, but there are enough of the garter snakes slithering in the grass, that if anyone wanted to hold one, they could conceivably catch one. We were warned though, if they didn't want to be caught, you might just get peed on! And yes, that happened.
After a few lessons from her dad, my granddaughter happily (and gently) held a few of her own. I suspect she thought they'd be pretty good pets, but she also let them go when it was time to do so. I will admit that she showed less fear than either of her grandparents!
Note: The pictures of the snakes are mine. If I were to post my hubby's pictures, you'd see a large parking lot, full of vehicles. He was just so shocked that so many people would drive that far to see snakes!
Saturday, April 14, 2012
We have a Housekeeper
Yes, you read that correctly... We have a housekeeper. That's been on my wish list forever, but I just couldn't ever justify it. But then my part-time job turned full-time, and I decided that the only way it ever WOULD get cleaned is if someone else did it.
I had seen an ad for someone who cleaned houses in a neighboring town (we're talking small towns here...) and so I asked her if she'd take on another house. Well, she couldn't. But she knew someone who was just starting up, and might be interested. So this someone else and I got in touch with each other. I admitted I'd never had a housekeeper before and she admitted she'd never been a housekeeper before. But her mom was, and she had learned a lot from her.
The lightbulb went on. All our conversations were via messages on Facebook. "I think I know your mom," I told her. So we compared notes, and sure enough, her mom goes to my church. A number of her cousins went to my church when we lived in Calgary. There are all kinds of connections.
So we often exchange notes. I love coming home on Tuesdays to my freshly cleaned house. She loves cleaning our house. Says she feels like she's blessing someone when cleaning here. That she is!! I feel both blessed and spoiled and I'm loving it.
I had seen an ad for someone who cleaned houses in a neighboring town (we're talking small towns here...) and so I asked her if she'd take on another house. Well, she couldn't. But she knew someone who was just starting up, and might be interested. So this someone else and I got in touch with each other. I admitted I'd never had a housekeeper before and she admitted she'd never been a housekeeper before. But her mom was, and she had learned a lot from her.
The lightbulb went on. All our conversations were via messages on Facebook. "I think I know your mom," I told her. So we compared notes, and sure enough, her mom goes to my church. A number of her cousins went to my church when we lived in Calgary. There are all kinds of connections.
So we often exchange notes. I love coming home on Tuesdays to my freshly cleaned house. She loves cleaning our house. Says she feels like she's blessing someone when cleaning here. That she is!! I feel both blessed and spoiled and I'm loving it.
Sunday, April 8, 2012
Easter Weekend
Had a lovely visit with my dad on Friday. Matthew must have taken this shot of Great Grandpa with Annika.
March 2012
Yes, I know it's April, but I forgot that I had unprocessed pictures on my camera from the last time the kids were here.
The shovel looks about my size!
Maybe it will be easier if I'm in Bestefar's shoes...
It's not working...
What fun to play with cousins again!
Just you wait... soon I'll be running with them!
We love bubbles!
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